1.) A passive gay man. He's the pillow biter in the relationship 2.) That dude who sneaks into a seedy motel with his prostitute in tow. A regular John. 3.) 60s. An older man who showers affection and gifts for his much younger male partner or lover. 4.) 60s. A sugar daddy or generous benefactor.
A woman divorced or separated. 2.) A woman whose husband is frequently away from home for business, entertainment or sports.
3.) A mistress who has been cast aside like that of Hester Prynne in Nathaniel Hawthorne's, The Scarlet Letter.
4.) A woman who has birth an illegitimate child.