A tough guy or dangerous man. This goes back to the days of Gunsmoke, hayseeds, John Waynes and wild west saloons. Back when curly wolves were "reckoned with" instead of shot at by some punk with mommy and daddy issues.
Coined by novelist, Ira Levin. She’s the cookie cutter of the perfect suburban housewife, servile, compliant, submissive and spineless. She greets her husband at the door with a great smile and a plate home baked goodies.