1.) A brawny strapping, bull of a man with the sigh of a lumberjack. He is usually classified as a teddy bear for cuddly use. 2.) In the gay community, he is a hairy, meaty man who projects that rugged sexy masculinity. He's like a gay Paul Bunion with a handsome beard. 3.) A moniker for a police officer, as in "Smokey the bear".
She will smother you with hugs and kisses. She will smother you with eligible men and the ways of the Kama Sutra. She will smother with unwarranted advice and counsel. She will smother you with "her" way until you are begging for death. She's your mother, that's her job.