A tough guy or dangerous man. This goes back to the days of Gunsmoke, hayseeds, John Waynes and wild west saloons. Back when curly wolves were "reckoned with" instead of shot at by some punk with mommy and daddy issues.
She’s the female equivalent of a “player.” She finds pleasure in playing head games with the most challenging of men. Her goal is to get men where she wants them, whipped and dumbfounded! Play on playette! - Blackstreet/ No Diggity/ Another Level.