The kind of guy you see sneaking out the back window before the hubby catches him. Ahh but wait, the smell of sinful lust lingers you naughty gal, Febreeze to the rescue! 2.) He's a gigolo. Your personal male "private dancer".
Aikane is a term used in traditional Hawaiian culture for an intimate male friend of lower rank involved with a man of ali’i (noble) rank. In contemporary Hawaiian folklife, it now refers to a close male confidante to another man, and with whom he might have a sexual relationship. It may also refer to a dear friend of any sex or gender.[sic] Source: Qualia Folk
You can find her on the boulevard or at a party strutting the hell out of a skin-tight dress. She was born a man, but identifies with being a hot, sexy woman in every way. In 1910, Magnus Hirschfeld coin the term Transvestite to describe the erotic drive to cross-dressing and the importance of wearing the clothes vs. them wearing you.